LIFE IS EITHER ADVENTOROUS OR NOTHING

 

Life is a bucket full of adventures or nothing.

In one way or the other we all get a share of its goodness or face the difficulties that come with it. Life is full of ‘journeys’ in one’s lifetime. Some short while others are long; some easy others difficult; some curvy others straight; some muddy others dry; some discouraging others filled with hopes.

The nature of life is known by nobody. Tough moments are meant to make us strong and shape our destinies while good times make us enjoy the beauty of life. Sometimes the nights seem too short to dream the about the lives we wish in the direction of live and days not long enough to contemplate the many examples of the lives we wish to live in days to come. Any time I take a breath am added more hopes of living my dream life.

I have realized that life is not a state that can fully satisfy you; at one time or the other both the poor and the rich face challenges along the way. Either while climbing the success ladder, getting education or making ends meet. Living is a combination of different locks and it takes a lot of hard work to get the right one for you. It requires patience to find the one that will unlock your destiny. Some people give up along the way while others hardly do.

Life gives us two certainties; starting the race and finishing. Starting is guaranteed but we are never sure of finishing but no matter what comes our way, we must keep going not sure of where it will drain us. Most are the times we forget our creator who brought us in this World; we start questioning His existence and to some extent abandon him but the bible says, ‘God created us with a purpose’. Never give up no matter what, soon or later you will reach your destiny.

When life gives you lemon, make lemonade!

FIRST DATE MAKE-UP

Mr Right has asked you out on a date. In the excitement, read first-date butterflies, many ladies fall into the trap of going overboard with their makeup. Looking like the joker, out of a batman movie will definitely not help your chances of getting to the second date.

Crafting the perfect look is easier than it sounds. Here are a number of tips that should help you along the way.

1)      Focus on the occasion

Consider the time and place. Wearing a dark Smokey eye look can make you appear over the top for a brunch at noon yet will turn heads at an evening cocktail.

 

2)      Go for what you know

Never try a new look on a first date chances are it could go very wrong blame it on Murphy’s law.

Same goes for new products.

3)      Pick a good powder

A good powder will help you look natural and keep your face from shining bright like a diamond. Use high quality powder that sets in well with your skin tone.

 

4)      Magnify your lashes

Guys like girls with pretty eyes, so go crazy with the mascara. Feel free to wear 23 coats to make your eyes pop.

 

5)      Check your teeth

Make one or two steps to the bathroom to make sure you do not have any lipstick on your teeth.

 

6)      Touch up discretely

Keep touch ups relegated to ladies rooms only. Powdering your nose in front of your date destroys the illusion of “natural”- can seem a little high- maintenance. Let’s face it, we want the guy to think we rolled out of bed this morning looking all dolled up. Remember, getting your make up right and looking good is more for you than for your date. Looking good will do wonders for your confidence and reveal the beautiful warm, fun to be with the person you are.

Nairobi girls hate each other girls for NO reason.

When I hear females saying things along the lines of “I’m not friends with too many women because they’re too much drama,” I can’t help but cringe. After years of experiencing all kinds of female friendships both good and bad, I’ve asked myself the same question over and over again. Why do women hate each other?

The truth is, most females, no matter how old they are will tell you that they’ve survived at least one type of mean girl in their past. Whether it was a situation that dealt with putting someone down, being dismissed, ignored or even socially tormented, they all seem to boil down to one thing- hatred. I just don’t understand it.

For some people they say that it has gotten worse in the past few years considering the increase in cyber bullying, but this issue has been around for ages. In one of my favorite books, A Tree Grows in Brooklyn, the main character Francie describes how she feels after a group of middle aged women torment a young 17 year old girl because she had a baby yet she wasn’t married. The young girl decided to take an Autumn stroll down the street in Brooklyn with her baby and that same group of women threw pebbles at her. And no- this book does not take place during the Salem Witch Trials. It actually takes place in 1912. Although times are slightly different now, that same judgment and scrutiny would still be passed today- I’m sure of it.

Look at how powerfully Francie describes her feelings towards females: “Most women had one thing in common: they had great pain when they gave birth to their children. This should make a bond that held them together, it should make them love and protect each other against the man-world. But it was not so. It seemed like their great birth pains shrank their hearts and their souls. They stuck together for only one thing- to trample on some other woman…whether it was by throwing stones or mean gossip. It was the only kind of loyalty they seemed to have. As long as I live, I will never have a woman for a friend. I will never trust any woman again, except maybe mama.”

If this doesn’t break your heart, I have no words for you. Why do some of us seemingly hate our own gender? As women we should be allies to each other, not be taught to hate and compete with each other. Why should this be the case?

There’s just a plethora of confusion that makes absolutely no sense. Honestly, I think the hatred for other women comes from within. Once a woman hates herself, it’s easy to get her to hate another woman. I say this because if a woman who hates herself sees a woman who seemingly doesn’t hate herself, it’s easy to project the internalized negativity onto her. Think about it. How many times have you heard, “Who does she think she is?” “She’s not all that anyway” “Why is she so full of herself?” This is true for all humans, not just women. It is human nature.

It pains me to think that we have this mentality. Society has us pitted against each other and seems to want to keep us from being whole and healthy as individuals and as a group. We should be and need to be celebrated by each other so that we can stand united and fight against injustice toward our gender. Women should empower each other instead of being so hateful towards each other.

This feels like an uphill battle, but I believe that we can and will be able to make it to the top. It starts by loving ourselves and loving each other. 

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Once Conservative Now Sensational

This perfectly describes our ladies in colleges. From hairstyles, fancy attires to loose bras this are what there lecturers face each day when they are before them. I am not saying that this is what all the girls in campus do or wear, but at least you can agree with me that most of them aim at something deep down their hearts and mind. Let us try to figure out what exactly they are after then we will advice our male lecturers.

Most of these ladies are aged between 18 and 24. At this age, they are trying to get out of their comfort zones in order to explore what you did not do when you were at that age. Granted, we live in a digital era where everything seems to be trending in your own way. Basically, everyone wants to be known in her own way. After all, who doesn’t want to be recognized as a celeb? Most of these ladies if not all, have directly out of high school uniform and want to taste the sweetness of college’s free style cladding. I am also one of those who hated to be confined in one color of dress Monday through Friday with an exception of only Sunday.

Now that they are in campus, they do as they want-wear, walk, talk, eat... I warmly welcome you to this liberated lifestyle that has a limit though. Look at this; the men you almost go nude for are either your next door neighbors in the village where you put up, siblings or your friend’s siblings; relatives and to crown it all, most are married and probably with children of your age. Is there point then for you to walk half nude before these?

If you happen to be in such a scenario, kindly pause and ask yourself if this is a worthy course. In essence, what did you come to search for in college? I doubt if it is to be known but to gain skills for your future. My sister, don’t lose the track for many have walked down that slippery ground and have fallen with no one to raise them up. Remember this too. Your male teachers have been here for many years others since the school started offering this education and so, many have passed through their able hands. So how many “super ladies” have they seen? Who are you to change what? What do you have that others did not posses? You have the answers.

My fellow lecturers, you are not innocent either. You are also catalysts to this phenomenon. I don’t mean all of you. In fact I know of a few that are super gentle, responsible family heads, fathers and guardians. You have my innermost commendations. At least I associate with you. Those that are the likes of these girls on the other hand, receive my rebuke. You have come to nurture our ones to the next level. Your level of education dictates that you should be a “smart” person. Live to that. Remember that there are quite a number of literates that yearn to have a chance to inculcate certain values to these girls but have not been fortunate enough to get it but you did. Help them gain the skills thematically.

Meanwhile, I suggest that you focus on your delivery not on their dress code. Stand behind the lecture hall as you preside over the lesson. This way, it may help calm your stimulations.

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